Okay ladies this might be a little long. I was 18 when I met my husband who was not a citizen of Canada. Being younge and naive I was married and pregnant within 7 months. He beat me all the time, said my son wasn't his, broke my nose on Christmas Eve. He was always talking to girls, found a million phone numbers and text messages. Then I find out he had been sleeping with my best friend. Then I found out his main purpose for marring me was so he could get his citizenship. I always told him I was going to leave and he didnt belive me but within two weeks of finding this out I had my own apartment. I used his citizenship issues to persuade his family into giving me two grand USD, it was either that or their son would be coming home! I got the money then went and got my best friends man (they were broken up by then) and made sure my husband knew. After I moved out I got custody of our son and a restraining order then I reported his ass to Immigration. HA HA Asshole now I have all the control and I haven't looked backed since.

PURE EVIL! Make a MySpace page for him or the homewrecker! It's even more fun if you set it up with their real email and check the setting to send alerts if they get a comment! Post lots of pics and make it look real...lol...they will not be able to take the myspace page down..hehe...oh, and go make them LOTS of friends in their area, it only took a month for the ho's next victim's daughter to get in touch with me! Haha... oh, another fun one is to call the cheating girls parent's phone and leave a message that she has been hired at the local strip club...hehe... or this was fun, I called his job and pretended to be his probation officer...and I could go on and on about my first husband....lol... I live in Texas and when he moved into a new house with a new girl, I smashed his patio window to get my dog and they called the cops but in Texas as long as we are legally married I can enter anywhere he lives and take anything I want cuz its HALF MINE!

Sending pamphlets from all the local funeral homes and cemetaries is always fun too.... hahaha... have fun! If I was any crazier I would be in jail...hahah....Also... when u catch em... instead of busting them make friends with the other woman.... AND KEEP HER AROUND FOR YEARS AS A THORN IN HIS SIDE....keep your enemies close....look what I did to the Bitch that tried to take mine...it was awesome! She turned out to be a REGISTERED SEX OFFENDER! I sent the link to her sex offender registration and this myspace page to her job HR dept and she was IMMEDIATELY fired!

I've been married for ten years, my husband Scott (Who travels for a living) cheated on me the first time with a stripper from Florida. Having that feeling but not knowing for sure I drove to Florida and got the proof I needed. I also smashed a few windows in her car with a baseball bat. Now almost 3 years later I learned that while he has been working out of town in Mexico he has been living with a younger woman for almost 6 months and is also dating one in Orlando where his office and part-time apartment for when he's in Orlando is located at.

While he was on a job in Louisiana he asked me to come visit him for some wild sex sessions. I agreed to do the deed because I wanted to gain evidence. I was able to make a copy of his car and apartment key and get both of the new girls phone numbers. I then flew to his new apartment and gained lots of good info then called both women and told them of his marriage and kids and flew back home a new woman! He called crying, "How could you do this to me? I TRUSTED YOU!" Hmmm...Notice any hypocrisy? Needless to say I am off to the attorney's office. I'd still like to inflict more pain but knowing his two little girlfriends don't like me much is pretty satisfying.

My boyfriend of four years went on a trip to Mexico with a friend I didnt trust. About a week after his return I went to get something from the coat closet and an appointment slip from the STD clinic fell out of his pocket. My heart sank I was crushed! I didnt let him know for a while. I suggested that we go to Mexico since he had so much fun there. We took a cruise and it was beautiful. At one of the more formal dinners I told him why I wanted to take the trip he was shocked. The rest of my revenge vacation was spent having a great time everywhere on the ship and you know it wasn't with him!

A few months after that trip I booked a trip to Hawaii with his credit card with no intentions of paying him back, my girlfriend and I spent 8 great days on Waikiki Beach. And for the finaly I told him I was pregnant and got him to give me money for an abortion I never needed. You see I figured If I spent 4 years loving this cheating man that the revenge had to take some time as well and I have to tell you it did feel good to use him and lie to him and have a lover behind his back until I could move into my own place.

Its funny but years later when he married I became a big part of his sons life. His mother had drug and alcohol problems and he was raising his son alone. Even I am not so cold hearted to NOT help someone out when they really need it. That was 12 years ago and that young boy comes over often and he knows he is like a son to me. All in all the revenge was sweet and I dont feel bad for it because in the moment it was exactly what I needed to heal. Like I say "Hit em where it hurts...right in the wallet baby! Take it all!".

I caught my boyfriend with a hooker from an escort service by noticing a string of calls on his cell phone bill that made no sense. I called the number and anticipating that perhaps this WAS an escort portrayed myself as his personal assistant and said that I wanted to set up an appointment for him in New York. She was amenable. By the time I was done I knew the price he paid and the meeting place! (I should be a detective!)

When I saw him an hour later he saw the look on my face and I confronted him with the facts. Of course he denied it twice before I told him I was insulted that he thinks I'm that stupid. Finally he admitted it and said he did it "just once and it was nothing." Since we share a credit card and he's the main owner I charged a ton of jewelry and clothing on it and then told him the next morning that I've forgiven him because he just paid for my forgiveness and from now on my fee for sex is $500 per time (since he himself stated I was better than any hooker).

He cannot live long enough to ever live this down and I will never trust him again. However I'm staying with him because he's rich and I'm going to now use him to pay for things and take me places. I have him right where I want him because he will be apologizing until the day he dies or gets a clue that now it's HIM that's being used!

I was dating this guy for 8 yrs. I found out by accident that a baby was on the way and I wasn't the pregant one! By snooping I found out he was a habitual cheater. I hung in there to get my revenge! I had him arrested 3 times because he was a drug dealer. He never knew it was me. I cost him $30,000 and he lost his vehicle, the police seized it, and he is a convited felon. The best part is yet to come...he thinks all his troubles are over but the prosecutor has an ace up his sleeve, he is about to go to court again and doesn't know the court system wants to revoke his probation and be sent to jail! Revenge is sweet!

Here is what my sister-in-law did to the father of her twins when he told her he had been seeing someone else and was leaving her. This is a quick, simple but oh so lasting way to get revenge: several weeks after the breakup he agreed to give up some money to buy groceries for his kids. First of all this was the stingiest person I had ever met, except when it came to buying himself something. I think he offered $20 dollars for the groceries. She went over there and played nice just so he wouldn't suspect anything. On her way back to her car she took out a fresh fish she had bought and quickly slipped the fish under the seat of his brand new car and left. This was in the middle of July and very hot! She never knew what happened until several years later when she was over him and they were on talking terms because of the kids. One day he brought up the fish and told her it wasn't until several weeks that he found out what was stinking the car up. He had to get it professionally cleaned and even then the smell would still come out when it sat in the heat. He ended up selling the car because of it!

Wow, do I have a good one for you...

I met a guy on Craigslist in August of '05. I thought it was love at first sight! Long story short...Although he is leading me on to think he loves me, he's been hunting for other women/couples to fool around with behind my back. I put spyware on his computer and found out WAY more than I bargained for and all this started over a little yellow "post it" with the name "Brandi" and a phone # on it...

I now have him going to Sex/Love Addicts anonymous for his computer addiction. I also managed to freak out his new love interest by sending her private e-mails between her online guy friends who discussed her like she was a piece of meat. Her husband kicked her cheating ass out of the house, took her 4 kids and filed for divorce, which I'm sure I can research...then I will give her hubby all the dirty details of her online life.

Meanwhile, I'm laying a VERY embarrassing trap for this guy...mainly because he pays my rent, has me on his health insurance, and generally treats me like a wife, even so far as the cheating goes! Can you believe this?

I was pleased to see that he gets turned down so fast and frequently when answering ads it's enough to make his head spin off his skinny neck! I thought that a nice homely guy who had a nice personality and education would be a safe bet, since I have been cheated on before. Not true, I guess.
To be continued.....

I was dating this guy about 2 years ago. We were together for about 10 months. This guy treated me like sh*t, made me miserable, controlled me, threatened me, and cheated on me. The asshole still had the nerve to deny his cheating on me even after I found a condom wrapper right in the center of his bed.

Well on the day of my birthday I left his ass to be with another guy. He begged me and cried on his knees night after night. Each time I smacked him around called him a little b*tch and told him to be a man! I would tell him the meanest things you could ever imagine right there in front of him while he's crying.

For 4 months he would harass me and threaten me and tell me to leave my new man. But in the end he is the one suffering because here I am today 1 year and 4 months later still with the man I left him for!

This was my birthday gift! :-)

Well my story is a little different, I am out for revenge on HER! They were co-workers, she knew he was married, she has 2 kids by 2 different men neither of them married her. She told him that he was in control when ever he wanted to end it she would agree. She makes me sick! I have put her picture on my Myspace site as my new best friend! LOL!She didn't like that!

I sent her mother a copy of text messages that she sent my husband along with the hotel receipt I got off his credit card's online account. I mailed an STD post card to her work office telling her to call and get her test results. Only thing every time something is done she makes a big stink about it. I guess she thinks she did what she did and should get away with it. They work for the same company, they should have both been fired but they split them up working in different cities instead. Now she is in my home town so I am working on a bumper sticker saying something like "I HAD A BOYFRIEND BUT HE STAYED WITH HIS WIFE", or "I LIKE MARRIED MEN" not sure exactly yet. I am up for any ideas of paying her back.

One other thing to help find cheaters, when I was catching him I already busted the cell phone calls, home phone records, text messages, and I just thought I needed to check more so I purchased a voice activated recorder from radio shack for $50.00 and placed it in his car. Guess what...I heard phone calls! He had bought another cell phone that you buy minutes for knowing I could not trace it. But the recorder did!

We have changed our life around and things are awesome between us now! It took time and a lot of work but people say we act like boyfriend and girlfriend now instead of a couple worn by bickering. So you can make it work! ALTHOUGH I STILL HAVE FLASH BACKS, DAYS I WONDER, AND MOST OF ALL I HATE HER, AND I AM NOT AT ALL DONE WITH HER, SHE WILL PAY!