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You should stop giving yourself to him. It sounds like the only reason you continue to have sex with him is because you think he will come back to a relationship with you. He won't. He's not thinking the same as you or he would have started the relationship up again already. Guys will do this. They will have sex with you for as long as you let them. It doesn't mean they want the same things as you though. They will also tell you anything to keep you having sex with them. You won't be able to get over him and find some one who cares for you until you realize that. Stop seeing him and give your self a chance to find some one new.
Is it possible that I am looking for a dad in a boyfriend? Cause I never had one and I feel like in a way when I go out with someone I want to feel secure with them and in a way I like to be treated like a little girl by who ever I am dating. So is that ok that I am looking for a "dad in a boyfriend"..cause I think that thats what I'm doing!
That's a really tough question to answer. I definitely think you are looking for a father figure, after all you have reflected on your situation and realized this need in your self. Is it ok? Its probably fine as long as the men are not abusive to you. The problem of seeking father figures in your relationships could come later. After some time being in a relationship you may find your self coming to terms with not having a father when you where a child. You would then most likely feel suppressed with your current relationship and desire to move on. If the way you feel is bothering you though, you should spend some time away from relationships altogether and really get to know your self. Being alone can really give you a chance to develop your own sense of security with out relying on a man.
My ex says he wants to get back together. We live together, sleep in the same bed and have a child together but he wants to date other women yet still makes passes at me. Why does he want me around?
Well, why wouldn't he want you around? He's got it made. He doesn't have to commit to a relationship with you and he still gets all of the privliges. You really are putting yourself at risk to catch a disease from this guy. Not to mention what he's already doing to your self esteem. It sounds like its time for you to move out and move on. He doesn't place any value on a relationship with you, and as long as you stay there you won't be able to find someone who does.
I just broke up with my boyfriend when i still had feelings for him. At first he wanted me bac really bad and told me all that i cant live wit out you junk... but when i said that i was willing to work things out and give him another shot, he turns around and says now he needs time to himself and to think. I realize that he needs time to think but i really do have strong feelings for him, and he says he does for me too. So should i just give him his time and space or wut should I do, this kinda threw me for a loop.
Either he's trying to play head games with you in order to get his way some how or he is wanting to continue the sex part of your relationship without having to "work things out". I guess the only way to find out which of the two he's up to is to go ahead and give him his space. If he then talks about working on the relationship then that's what he wants. If he just strings you along more, well, its probably just more sex he wants.
My boyfriend came on strong in the first few months, but things soon changed. As soon as I said something when he started going away with his buddies every weekend, he broke up with me. Then, he begged me to come back two days later. He said he wanted to work things out, but he still went out to bars with his friends (leaving his cell phone off) on nights that we had plans. I found out that he has a history of cheating. He told me he never loved me--that I took it out of context and that he didn't really mean it. He also said that he still has feelings for his ex, but later said that he never said that. He told me that his ex was a bitch and that he was a really great boyfriend with her. He tried to make me stick around and feel sorry for him. After I broke up with him, he said he needs me in his life and fought with me to stay friends. One weekend, I started to act like a "friend" and he discouraged me from going out with him, emphasizing that he would be meeting a bunch of his friends. Recently, he bought me a present, but he has been trying to get me to call him in order to get it. I'm tired of being strung along. How do I reverse the roles so that I can screw with him and make him pay?
Wow, this guy certainly needs to pay! Try ignoring him for a little while, this usually drives guys crazy. Then when you talk to him and make plans to do something make sure you stand him up or say you're going out with a friend at the last minute. He'll be mad at you so you will have to say sorry the next day and try to sound sincere. Wait for him to make plans with you again, don't be the one to initiate it, agree and then stand him up again! Keep doing this until he becomes as frustrated as you feel then tell him you can't make plans with him anymore because you're dating one of his friends. Oh, when he asks who the friend is tell him you can't say because the guy made you promise not too. That should make him crazy!
Is it possible to be friends with your ex when
you still love him? he told me that his feelings for me now are just for
friendship and i just agreed rather than loosing him.. even if it
hurts.. but we're always fighting on some things, pls help?
What do i say to my ex boyfriend to make him
SAME MAN 26 YEARS, WE HAD A SPLIT FOR ABOUT A
MONTH, HE TALKED TO A WOMAN FROM A HELP LINE AND WHEN WE GOT BACK TOGETHER
HE TOLD HER NOT TO CALL ANYMORE, NOW I HAVE FOUND WHERE SHE KEEPS
CALLING, SHOULD I CALL HER AND CONFRONT HER OR CONFRONT HIM AGAIN OR WHAT. I
CANT STAND HIM GOING BEHIND MY BACK.
WHAT TO DO?
Me and My bf broke up in oct. and a week later I
found out that he was dating another girl. He told me that he wasnt
happy with her, and he was with me. I have tried to get over him but i
just can't. I can't sleep at night, can't eat, or anything. I need help on
what to do. If he breaks up with her should I go back out with him? Why
do I still love him? Why do I still care? Why do I dream about him
everynight? Please Help Me!!!!
How can i win him back when i was the one who
did wrong. I really love him my life has been a living nightmare without
this man. So please give me some advice on what to do. I work with his
mother and she know how much I love him.
I have been seeing this guy for a month or so, we spend a lot of time together. He changed jobs, just got out of a relationship, he was very keen and now I dont hear a word?
How early is too early to tell her I love her?
Will Ben come back to me?
My ex, won't go away! I've had 'private' phone calls
I know are him. Emails of Music Vidoes that talk about exs, love, hate
ect and now, his away message is "My name is a c*nt" I don't really
care, I just wish he would get over it cause hes the one that called it
off first, so when I decided to move on and agreed to call it off, he
comes BEGGING me not to leave him. AH! Get the F*CK over it. Men are stupid. He came over one day, talked
to me all nice like, and my new b/f which he knows is my b/f and played
nice like to him too, so what his deal? I want to do something to make
him leave me alone but what the hell am I supposed to do? I would love to
get the cops involved somehow, but I can't really think of a way,
-sigh- Thank you for this site, I needed ideas and a rant place. Thank you.
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